Monday, November 3, 2008

One Week In.......

Abby has been in St. V's one week today! Yeah!!! So far today is a much better day than yesterday. The bleeding has let up today but is still there. Abby had an ultrasound at 7 am this morning. There was less than 1/2 centemeter of fluid, very minimal. However, the baby did have hiccups again, and that was good to see. He had them yesterday as well. We are hoping this is a sign that he may be getting a little fluid or at least has some lung development. Here is an excerpt I found online regarding fetal hiccups:
According to
Sophia Levis, hiccups in the unborn baby are just a fetal reflex that is remarkably similar to our own. Only the more mature fetuses will hiccup, as hiccups rely on the development of the central nervous system. Some experts think that hiccups in utero are a response to fetal drinking or fetal breathing, which causes the flow of amniotic fluid in and out of the lungs, stimulating the diaphragm to contract.
The hiccups have really helped bolster Abby's spirits as have the visits and messages from family and friends. Thanks to all for your thoughts and prayers. A special thank you to Di and Larry Weber and Grandma Rupp for the floral arrangement. It sure brightens the room. Thanks also to Megs Tameling for the beautiful cookie basket arrangement and to Joe and Nancy Dolan for the huge basket of goodies, slippers, books and magazines and especially your visit. Thanks to Jeremy's mom and sister for everything you have done. You have been amazing! Thanks to everyone who has sent a card or e-mailed, too. Abby really loves getting mail.
During the ultrasound visit this morning Abby was able to meet with one of the MFM Drs. He told her that even with the bleeding they do not want to take the baby yet if they don't have to as the chance of survival at this point would not be good. Keep praying they the bleeding will stop and that she will not have any contractions. It was decided after yesterday's scare that Abby's case will be managed primarily by the MFM Drs. as opposed to her regular OB-GYN. We think this makes sense as they are the high risk specialists and final decisions will now be left up to them.
One other bit of information......the nurses here have now given the little guy a name. They call him "Dennis the Menace" as they think he is very ornery. Whenever they try to find his heartbeat he moves as soon as they find it. He apparently doesn't like them pushing the monitor on her belly and finds a way, with no fluid, to move away. They can't imagine how he does this but somehow he finds a way! I can't say enough for the staff here at St. V's. They are the best and they help keep us going when things get rough.
Update on the bed rest situation. Abby is still confined to her bed. She is still a little bummed by this but has managed to find her usual sense of humor. She has come to the conclusion that pregnancy robs you of any and all dignity. I even heard her tell her sister today, "Just think, all you have to do is push your baby out your vagina." I knew we had a little bit of our Abby back.
Those of you who know her will relate to this.................. the rest of you I hope I didn't offend.
Thanks again for your prayers. We keep dodging bullets and I know that is the reason.


Nancy Dolan said...

Hi Abby,
It was great talking with you today. I know your mom will be leaving tomorrow, so if there is anything I can do for you, just let me know. You've done so much for me and I will never be able to repay you. So, please let me do something for you. I'm sending lots of good thoughts your way. Love, Nancy

Heather said...

Where is the best address to send mail?

Dani said...

hahaha. that comment to her sister was so perfect coming from Abby's mouth. aww i miss her so much. Tami you are so amazing for everything you have done. Abby obviously speaks so highly of you. Thank you for taking care of my BFF :)

"Denise the Menace!" How funny! Why didn't I think of that!?

You are still in my thoughts and prayers Abs. love you and miss you oh so incredibly much!

Ashley Smith said...

You probably don't know me but my sister went to school with Allison. I came across your blog and it nearly made me want to cry. I have been following it ever since. I am 25 weeks pregnant now with my second child and guess I have taken for granted all the things that can happen and go wrong. There are tons of people praying for you. I just wanted to let you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Ashley Smith

Suzy said...

Ab -

Just wanted to leave you a note to let you know I was thinking about you. Stay positive! The whole family is pulling for you - we love you, don't forget it!!